Inputs by Niyatii Shah, relationship expert, intimacy coach, founder and president of Averti Education and Council of sex educators for social change. Photo Courtesy: iStock
Be honest:
Be honest with your partner about your feelings regarding their friendship with their ex. Share your emotions openly and vulnerably, so they understand how it makes you feel.
Listen actively:
Take the time to actively listen to your partner's perspective and feelings about their friendship. Try to understand their reasons for maintaining the connection and be empathetic to their point of view.
Express your needs:
Let your partner know what you need to feel secure and valued in the relationship. Communicate your boundaries and discuss what would make you more comfortable with their friendship.
Establish trust:
Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship. Work together to build and maintain trust, assuring each other of your commitment and love.
Address insecurities:
If the friendship triggers feelings of insecurity or jealousy, address these emotions openly and without judgment. Seek support from each other in navigating these complex feelings.
Mutual respect:
Ensure that both partners show respect for each other's feelings and boundaries. The friendship should not come at the expense of the current relationship.
Set boundaries:
Collaborate on setting clear boundaries that work for both of you regarding their friendship. Find a compromise that respects both your needs and fosters a healthy relationship.
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