14 February,2021 07:00 AM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondent
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He lost both his sons, sold his house to pay for his granddaughter's education, slept in an auto, but Desraj's courage remains undaunted.
After his heart-wrenching story was shared by âHumans of Bombay', help has been pouring in for the Mumbai-based autorickshaw driver.
In his interview with Humans of Bombay, Desraj revealed that after losing both his sons, it was the responsibility of providing for his grandchildren and daughters-in-law that gave him the strength to keep going.
"Six years ago, my eldest son disappeared from home. He left for work as usual but never returned," said Desraj, who plies his auto near Khar.
His 40-year-old son's body was found a week later. "A part of me died with him, but burdened by responsibilities, I didn't even have the time to mourn - the next day, I was back on the road, driving my auto," he said.
Two years later, he lost his other son to suicide.
"It was the responsibility of my daughter-in-law and their four children that kept me going," said Desraj.
To earn for the family, he started working longer hours - leaving home at 6 am and driving his auto till midnight to earn around Rs 10,000 a month. Of this amount, Rs 6,000 went into paying for the education of his grandchildren, leaving Rs 4,000 to feed a family of seven.
"On most days, we'd barely have anything to eat," added Desraj.
However, he said, everything was worth it when his granddaughter scored 80 per cent in her Class 12 Board Exams. The whole day, he gave free rides to customers to celebrate her achievement.
But when his granddaughter said that she wanted to travel to Delhi for a B.Ed course, Desraj knew he wouldn't be able to afford it.
"I had to fulfill her dreams... at any cost. So, I sold our house and paid her fee," he said
Desraj's wife, daughters-in-law and other grandchildren were sent to a relative's home in their village, while he continues to drive his auto in Mumbai.
"It's been a year now and honestly, life's not bad-I eat and sleep in my auto and during the day, I ferry my passengers," he said.
Evidently a proud grandfather, he said all his pains vanish when his granddaughter called him to tell she stood first in her class.
"I can't wait for her to become a teacher. She's going to be the first graduate in our family," he said.
Desraj's story touched hearts on social media and many offered to help him.
"Have a lump in my throat as I read this!! Such remarkable devotion and responsibility towards his family at his age, and such overwhelming generosity in offering free rides despite his economic condition," wrote one person in the comments section.
"I would love to donate to help him financially," another said.
A Facebook user named Gunjan Ratti started a fundraiser for Desraj, which has raised more than Rs 5.3 lakh from 276 donors.
The story was also posted on Twitter by the Congress's Archana Dalmia and retweeted by Milind Deora. Dalmia shared the auto driver's phone number and appealed to Mumbaikars to help him.